FAMILY

Family

Supporting your trans child is essential to affirming their identity. By openly expressing and positively acting on your support for your child’s gender identity and expression, your child will feel that they are in a safe, supportive environment where they can flourish as their authentic selves. You can show your support by listening to your child, taking the steps they want to take in their gender journey seriously, respecting their chosen name and pronouns, and always standing up for them.

TRANS INCLUSIVE HEALTHCARE

A Resource Guide for Parents

Do you think your child has questions about their gender or sexuality?

OUTLINE AOTEAROA

Supporting your trans child is essential to affirming their identity. By openly expressing and positively acting on your support for your child’s gender identity and expression, your child will feel that they are in a safe, supportive environment where they can flourish as their authentic selves. You can show your support by listening to your child with an open ear, taking the steps they want to take in their gender journey seriously, respecting their chosen name and pronouns, and always standing up for them.

Community Embrace

A community embrace for parents with transgender and queer kids

OUTLINE AOTEAROA

Help! Is my child transgender?

This information is useful in assisting you to think about the best ways in which to support your child.

GENDER MINORITIES AOTEAROA

TRANS CARE BC

Supporting children, youth, and families

A handout offering some simple tips for supporting children, youth, and families through a child or youth's gender exploration

TRANS CARE BC

Education links for care providers working with children, youth, and families

Gender Diversity Education for care providers working with children, youth and families

TRANS CARE BC

Gender-affirming parenting guide

A handout for parents and caregivers of gender-diverse children and youth

TRANS CARE BC

Resources for parents and caregivers

A handout offering some resources that exist for parents and caregivers

TRANS CARE BC

Soutenir les jeunes trans et créatif·ve·s dans le genre

French-language handout offering simple tips for supporting children, youth, and families through a child's or youth's gender exploration.

TRANS CARE BC

Guide pour les parents sur l'affirmation de genre

French-language handout for parents and caregivers of gender-diverse children and youth

TRANS CARE BC

Questions Often asked

Here are some of the questions as Parents we often ask ourselves when it comes to dealing with our children.

When should I start talking with my kid about sex and relationships?

Tips on how to start and have conversations about sex and relationships with your kids as a parent

PLANNED PARENTHOOD

How do I talk with my preschooler about identity?

When it comes to gender, ideas about what it means to be a girl or a boy are everywhere, and these ideas have a big influence on your preschooler

PLANNED PARENTHOOD

What should I teach my elementary school-aged child about identity?

During the elementary school years, as kids interact more with other kids, they start to think a lot more about different family structures. They also come to understand their gender identity during elementary school.

PLANNED PARENTHOOD

What should I teach my middle schooler about identity?

Who am I? What am I into? Middle school is when your preteen starts asking these questions and exploring their identity in all kinds of ways.

PLANNED PARENTHOOD

What should I teach my high school-aged teen about identity?

Part of being a teen is figuring out who you are — including your sexual orientation and gender identity. No matter what your teen’s identity, they’re likely to have many questions.

PLANNED PARENTHOOD